First of all - Do I look stupid? Do I lack in the intelligence department?
No.
I may be human and I may have a heart that can be broken but I am NOT dumb. If someone were to really (outright, forwardly, and openly) to tell me that they didn't want a relationship (while I do want one) I am pretty certain it would be the obvious conclusion that we (the other person and myself) are incompatible. If someone were to tell me this why would I deliberately waste my time with someone who didn't want the same things that I did? By that description I would be a moron, an idiot if you will. But here is the thing: I am not an idiot or a moron or any of those other things that would denote a lack of intelligence or that I possess a mentality that is equivalent to that of a three year old.
Men must really think they are clever. I tell you every man that I have ever met (with a few rare exceptions) has absolutely disgusted me with their immaturity, selfishness, and simple-mindedness. You are all a giant pack of roaming babies; you want nothing more than to waste your time on fruitless events and your lack of concern for others and anything remotely mature or seemingly normal is abhorrent. Your manners offend me as well as your attitudes toward women and their relevance in life. (And please note here that all 'yours' in this paragraph are in reference to 'men.')
Another thing that really annoys me about men is their complete contradictions in their actions: why can't you just have the balls to tell a girl you don't want to see her anymore or that you really don't think it's going to work out? And why would you ever offer any sort of an unreal relationship (i.e. fuckbuddy, convenience dating, etc) to a lady? How disrespectful! How rude! Who are you to assume that you can have anything you want and have it anyway you want it? Obnoxious and arrogant! Please, learn some humility and learn that that sort of thing is NOT okay or desriable to any woman. There are women who are open to that sort of thing (I used to be one of them) but deep down they all really want to be with someone who will treat them with respect and care for them...
It baffles me that men think they will ever obtain any sort of dignity or respect from women with any of the attitudes that I previously listed. Get over thinking you are above what everyone else has...
*Always.
Caitlin
Sometimes those most worthy of love are not made happy by it. ~Dangeous Liaisons
It is on the strength of observation that one finds a way; so we must dig and delve unceasingly. ~Claude Monet 1840-1926