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2004-04-05
When did the line skew to go from guys wanting sex and being denied to girls wanting sex and being denied?I was so confused because I was talking to some friends of mine and we all discovered that guys just aren't what they used to be anymore...why is it so hard to find sex these days? I have decided to keep an update and hopefully I can write a fucking book one day about why guys are so backwards and weird... Also as I was discussing another issue with a good guy friend of mine...and we came across the problem of what should you call what in a "relationship"? If you meet someone and you talk and you like them and you hang out? Are you "talking" to that person or are you actually "seeing" them? And furthermore I have decided to write out my own dating dictionary for you all to read; this is my view... When someone says "We're..." 1) talking - what they really mean is "we are having sex" 2) seeing each other - what they mean is that they are semi-dating but they can't really say it because the other person might be offended. 3) dating - they mean that they are seeing one another, but that doesn't necessarily mean it is exclusive or for that matter even known by the other party! 4) fuck buddies - they have sex but usually the one person in the "fucking" has real feelings for the other. 5) just friends - they mean they hate the fact that the other person doesn't want to be with them. 6) not really anything - they mean...it's none of your business! So, those are my perceptions of commonly used relationship terms that most people are confused by! I hate them and I know everyone else does, so here is my theory on how we can all rest a little easier: BE FUCKING HONEST! Don't be afraid to be honest with someone; chances are if you are thinking about it, the other person is too. damn it! Grow up and just say what's on your mind! I do! And ever since I started being honest with the guys I have ever seen, I know what I am looking for, what I expect, and what I want in a relationship or a guy. Clear the air folks! Speak up or lose out... *Always. Caitlin |
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Sometimes those most worthy of love are not made happy by it. ~Dangeous Liaisons It is on the strength of observation that one finds a way; so we must dig and delve unceasingly. ~Claude Monet 1840-1926 |