The thing I find intriguing about many young women my age is their enthusiasm to continually encourage a dream that no longer exists - and I'm not entirely certain it ever really did. The dream that sex is equal to love. Why do females continue to create these illusions? I, myself, have never openly accepted that idea as possible or plausible. There are three questions that women need to take into consideration when having sex with any man: these questions are what you can use to calculate if your sex life and your partner will ever hold up to a relationship.
Question #1: Is your man gay?
- If your man is gay, that is the only way he will ever be sensitive enough to understand what you want as a woman. If he isn't gay, give it up.
Question #2: Does your sex life often outweigh your love life?
- In other words, is the sex you two experience the only thing you really have going for one another? Is your sentiment overrun by sex? If your communication skills are less time consuming than his oral preparedness then you should stop immediately and run away, just go because it ain't gonna happen.
Question #3: Did your dream of the perfect first time actually happen?
- The way I see is if you experienced a really special first time, you will never be emotionally satisfied with anything you ever receive from a male after that experience. I think that NOT having an expectation of what should happen is how real women should think. If you have no expectations, they can't be ruined and neither can the rest of your love life thereafter.
So, there you have it ladies and gents. I hope these questions help you to gain a little more insight into the world of what I like to call, reality.
Have a great night!
*Always.
Caitlin
Sometimes those most worthy of love are not made happy by it. ~Dangeous Liaisons
It is on the strength of observation that one finds a way; so we must dig and delve unceasingly. ~Claude Monet 1840-1926