I want to write an entry this evening in response to a diary I recently encountered; someone recently started a diary that bares a startling image to an adivce column...which at first I thought was a good idea, but then I thought again.
Do you know why people write in for adivce? Not only that, why they write supposedly unbiased strangers? Because they're dumb, that's right. Oh by the way, here is the site: (I think )
http://lasthonest1.diaryland.com
Why are these people dumb for simply wanting to find an answer in which they couldn't find themsevles? Because people, answers aren't always easy...writing to someone else who knows nothing about your life or your experiences is NOT going to make making choices any easier!!! HELLO! If you don't have it in yourself to find the answer or you can't confide in a CLOSE, PERSONAL, family member/friend then you shouldn't just ask the next person you encounter on the street or in a grocery store! What the hell is that?
And not only that, the problems that these supposedly "worried" people write in about are gay as hell. Who writes in for advice about arguing (with their sister) over a guy who isn't even in the same GOD DAMN country? Or for that matter...someone wrote for advice about a person whom they think might have a drinking problem...well, lady define "drinking problem" because that is probably half the country...and you know what the person you claim has a "problem" may just like throwing back a few every day...and where I am from that does NOT make one an alcoholic or chronic drinker!!!!!!! Do you drink yourself? Or are you just a prude? I'm sorry, I don't mean to insult, actually I don't mean to but it happens because you people leave yourself WIDE OPEN for criticism! Not that you have to feel I am correct because I am A COMPLETE STRANGER to you!!!!
Come on...really?! Oh, and the deal with the girl who snoops around in her boyfriend's shit, well, I hope he casts your ass out for looking through his shit...or perhaps you both do deserve one another because you can't just grow up and be honest with one another, like real adults do! Don't ask people to validate your snoopy, nosy ass just because you found out something you didn't really wanna know! And think about it! If you didn't know about it now would you really think anything was wrong with your relationship at all? Would trust have ever even been an issue at all?!?!?!?! Probably not.
I'm done, I can't handle the ignorance!
*Always.
Caitlin
Sometimes those most worthy of love are not made happy by it. ~Dangeous Liaisons
It is on the strength of observation that one finds a way; so we must dig and delve unceasingly. ~Claude Monet 1840-1926