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A Life Less Ordinary A Life Less Ordinary
2004-08-04
How is it one is supposed to verbally express their feelings when they cannot find the correct words to describe the feeling?

I know how I feel about something but yet I can't seem to explain it exactly how I want to; I want the other person to REALLY get what I am saying, feeling, conveying you know? It's hard...sometimes I feel like I may be wrong for feeling the way I do about something because I can't tell the person exactly what angers me or what is upsetting me: I don't know why, I just can't. In writing I find that I am usually very articulate but in one-on-one convos, it seems to lack a bit...if I'm nervous or uncertain.

This is basically what it boils down to: (this is the version without the accusations, "you-did-this, I-did-that" bullshit)

I don't feel we're close anymore; I think you let guys become too important to you. I can't handle your mood swings when it comes to guys...it makes me feel...well, it makes me not want to be around you. I think you're too needy and too naive about "love." I think you need to spend more time on making yourself happy (minus the guy situations). I think you can't see the really great person you are unless it's validated by someone of the opposite sex. You seem to reflect the mood that your girl/guy relationship is encountering at any given time; this is annoying. You talk too damn much about your love interests...it's bothersome and although I am your friend I am NOT your personal fortune teller, so telling me the same damn detail about his smile or his hair 150 times is not going to make me think he's any cooler, especially if I haven't met him. I hate that you ask for my advice and never take it, no scratch that, never even CONSIDER it - it's just something that makes it easier for you to talk about your love interest with me, so I won't be bored or annoyed. THERE! I said it all; all that I feel about THAT given topic. I'm done...

*Always.

Caitlin

Wilted | Fresh


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