I recently asked a few of my male friends about the rule of waiting to call a female...I was quite surprised by the answers and had never actually thought about the answers they gave as being probable explanations to the actual problem....
So one replied that, "I don't usually call a girl until I WANT to call her. Sometimes girls mistake this as us not liking them or not having an interest, but that just isn't the case. Honestly, most of the time I am busy and have no desire to talk to her as soon as I get her number."
Intriguing no? I thought to myself, men do not seem to understand the concept of why a female gives out her number. A majority of the time it is often to initiate a second or even third date; not purely based on the hopes of having multiple phone conversations with the male. NO NO NO! So, men seem to think it's because we want to converse with them. And what would be so wrong with that? I am not one to enjoy phone conversations with males, I find it pointless and would much rather just talk to them in person. I find it easier to tell how they really are in person rather than over the phone.
I don't know...I don't really care...someone inform me of what the hell is wrong with men?!
always.
caitlin*
Sometimes those most worthy of love are not made happy by it. ~Dangeous Liaisons
It is on the strength of observation that one finds a way; so we must dig and delve unceasingly. ~Claude Monet 1840-1926